Unleashing The Truth :- What is the biggest misconception about Indian men?
Well there is misconception of India being
rape capital, but it's totally wrong!! Indian men are seeing as potential
rapist because feminism turns against Indian men.. So there are some myths
which causes harmed to Indian men.
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First it's wrong to call India a rape
capital!!! And then India has a population of more than 1.3 billion peoples!!!
If combine
population of EUROPE CONTINENT AND US it's not more than 110 crore compare to India
135 crore of India.
Hindu men worship goddess to tell women their
limits, to regulate their vaginas, a traditional patriarchal society…
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Germany professors
denied to teach Indian male because of rape problem in India, “One email
from Beck-Sickinger posted by the student's colleague stated:
"Unfortunately I don't accept any Indian male students for internships. We
hear a lot about the rape problem in India which I cannot support. I have many
female students in my group, so I think this attitude is something I cannot support." Student denied German university
internship citing India's 'rape problem'
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Had u ever heard"
NEW WOLF PACK" a gang which organizes gang rape in France. No because
media don’t show dark reality of so called safe places for women!!
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Not just this even
Christopher Booker, an English journalist condemned foreign media to call India
a rape capital.. BBC documentary on India's daughter erupted as volcano to call
Indian men as rapist.. He say that
~” If there is a cultural problem here in UK is long lasting desire of western media to stereophonic Indian males as sexual predators!!”
~ Christopher John Booker
Propaganda against Indian can be seen in
global media about Indian men stereotyping!! BBC, CNN, Huffington.. Thomas
Reuters famous insensible report that India is most dangerous country for
women, this is biggest lie of this century… if u go by facts u will see rape
and consequence problem are also dangerous in so called safe country like USA,
UK, Australia, etc!! If I go by fact then India is 85 among 121countries for
reported cases and 39 among unreported cases
Yes but of course let's explore something more
!!! I know many cases are reported but India is still in 39, another thing is
that India has population of 1.3 billion or more.. [this isn't also a good
position but calling it rape capital is itself wrong..]
Many rape cases that are being filed is basis
of promise of marriage but it is consensual..
Another things is India feminist and media
wrongly portrayed images of Indian men.. They never talk about male domestic
violence, fake rape, fake dowry, etc…
1. Indian men can party, society accepts
it: sorry dear feminism
but if u knew about typical society mentality they termed these men as
characterless, alcoholic, stupid and bringing shame to family.. I don’t what
data they use but it's exaggeration that we are allowed to do many things,
night out is a dream of majority of Indian men, because they knew they will
condemned by society as irresponsible because men is considered to be head of
all stressful works!!
2. Indian men can have sex before marriage: well another misconception about Indian
society.. If a girl/boy having sex, it is considered shameful… one of such examples
I had a look where a father beaten his son in my society.. A typical mentality
is u both should be virgin before marriage, but acc to feminist why this is a
social stigma for women more? Well because they can get pregnant.. A typical Indian
parents is more concerned because they have concern for pregnancy of women.. it
is neither of patriarchy nor misogynist culture..
3. Indian marriage is one sided: A lot of feminist claim about Indian marriage
and it's suffer related to women only, well I have another perspective, ever know
a men whose life is divided between two women.. One who became unknown
living in his own house…
4. Men objectify girls, especially Indian
men: have u ever heard
about britches or hoes, common phrases used to objectify women in UK, US!! My
cousin brother told me about how men in pub, meetings and on roads comments on
women wear revealing dress.. You should know blaming only Indian men, u
are a threat to this country.. global media is using your views to describe Indian
society!!
5. Indian men wants virgin wife: well I think then u should talk to more
females.. Men/ women all are concerned about Past in India!! I know hell lot of
women being stricken to that what if my future husband come out to be second
hand, what if he had sex with lot of women, will he be compatible with
me!! Just because women don't talk openly doesn't mean they don't care
about past!!!
6. Men don't have to take much responsibility, we
have to pleases everyone around home: U know why international men's day is underrated, because
father's hard work is considered negligible.. men of family should provide to
whole family consisting of wife, mother, children and father.. he has extra
burden to make more money from early age.. He is told to save money for future
.. he works his ass off without complaining about stress.. he gets
emotional but can't share feelings, he is a man and he should done this all..
7. They want beautiful cook: U want a stud with money, property, car, smart/handsome
with big house..
He isn't get judged: well as a man I must say society has set a protocol
for both men and women.. We have a men protocol!!! I admit fact that girls
are judged on dress, talking to boys.. Well as talking to boys it is bit
exaggeration from feminist I'm not denying it but it is presented bit more. Typical
society if see a boy talking to girl considered as irresponsible towards
family, womanizer, pervert.. We are considered wrong and girl are
considered to be righteous… no one listen to us in public if a men and women is
fighting or have an accident of vehicles, they generally beat u as a o
object.. we are judged how much we earn, we also get body shamed if
we are bit more fat or more thin.. we are judged if we don't get settle in
early age, owing cars and properties because it is standard to fulfill every
dream of your future wife and children..
If u are aware then there are more cases of
child abuse done against boys but no one showed this.. that's our country who
have closed eyes on male victims!!!
In July, two Mumbai boys aged 10 and 13 passed away after
committing suicide. It was later confirmed they were sexually assaulted. A
fortnight later, a 16-year old boy filed a complaint against 15 boys who
were brutally gang-raping him repeatedly for one year. These cases briefly
brought to the forefront conversations around sexual abuse of boys. In
July, two Mumbai boys aged 10 and 13 passed away after
committing suicide. It was later confirmed they were sexually assaulted. A
fortnight later, a 16-year old boy filed a complaint against 15 boys who
were brutally gang-raping him repeatedly for one year. These cases briefly
brought to the forefront conversations around sexual abuse of boys .In
July, two Mumbai boys aged 10 and 13 passed away after
committing suicide. It was later confirmed they were sexually assaulted. A
fortnight later, a 16-year old boy filed a complaint against 15 boys who
were brutally gang-raping him repeatedly for one year. These cases briefly
brought to the forefront conversations around sexual abuse of boys.
Not just this Indian men cannot adopt girls
child as prescribe by women's commission.. we can’t be a house husband if we
want to.. We are also respect/honors of our family, men suicide rates are far
more than girls, men mostly died in combat roles, they are one who
mostly dies in industrial sector.. Men also suffer from domestic violence,
blackmailing by women.. his whole family can come under threat for fake
accusations.. media portrays on women's education but never talks about most
child labour are our young boys.. they are more treated as labour then as asset..
he is more likely to lose custody of children, paying maintenance or alimony because
of biased laws and u aren't aware of that.. I once went to a NGO for old people
and their manager who is my uncle told me that many men on being forced by wife
leave their parents without any fault.. A women can also be toxic as a men but
differences is of portrayal from media.. Men who mostly done all outside work
without any complaint..
As an Indian men I can say that average Indian
girls go through many problems.. I m concerned about women domestic violence,
rapes, sexual harassment.. You can't roam in revealing clothes/ restricted from
going night out!!! I know almost every Indian woman goes through eve teasing ..
I know a girl’s life is more difficult to that of boys sometimes if I talk
about in general but this doesn't mean that we should start calling country to
be a curse for women.. everyone has a story to tell, but they are afraid..
U can be more privileged then many of men.. u
just don't understand everyone's life has different struggles.. Many and many
more are under privileged then u thought to be.. so be a good sensible person
to understand thing's.. calling Indian culture toxic, misogynist isn't
going to help.. changes should be brought up by education not by writings
against males…
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